Strong woman who submits to whom she chooses.
I've got a ton of filthy kinks and fetishes, but my number one fetish is intelligent men who are mindful, communicative, calm, confident, and empathetic. If we can't talk about our lives and the world with a decent conversation - nothing else is going to happen.
Best wishes to everyone in their search.
YES TO:
* DD/lg dynamic (must have)
* Spankings and other really hard impact play without "you've been a bad girl" messaging - I love it! 😍
* Firm, structured, disciplined-but-positive Dominants
* Men 45 years old+
* Health-conscious men 😍
* Those very local to the Phoenix Metro Area
NO TO:
* Smokers - it tastes yucky to kiss 🤷♀️
* Grouchy people 😂
* Switches, Subs, Vanilla, or "I'm so horny" guys / those "kinda curious about this stuff"
* Doms who live to "punish" w/ "bad girl"
* People who ghost other people
* Doms who aren't comfortable being called Daddy
* Men under 45
* MAGA people - I'm a centrist
* Heavy alcohol or 420 users
* Men who aren't health-conscious
* More than 40 miles from N Phoenix
* ***, kids, *** play, ***s
I’ve been such a good girl all day, but now I’m craving a little mischief. I want someone brave enough to handle my kind of fun. Who’s ready to make my night worth remembering? I have something for u!!! msg me
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09/02 Update: I am now in a relationship, but one where I am still free to explore my wants and desires with his blessing. If there are any bisexual or bi-curious men who would like to play with the two of us together, that is always welcome 😁 If there is anyone who is interested in solo time with me, that is also an available option but with some stipulations which can be discussed later.
I'm open to a lot of different things. To break it down I would either like someone with an equally large sado/masochist side for some really ***ful experices that leave us both clinging to life, or someone who is into the MDLB dynamic ?
I can tell you a lot about myself, but everything you need to know about me you can see in the depths of my eyes. I don't want long conversations, I want a real relationship.
I’m the type who’ll make you laugh mid-flirt and then look at you like I just undressed you with my eyes. Equal parts trouble and temptation, with a heart that actually gives a damn—because attraction is fun, but connection? That’s the real turn-on.
I don’t do boring. I want sparks, smirks, and someone who knows how to turn playful banter into something a lot less innocent. I’m into deep convos, dirty laughs, spontaneous plans, and unapologetic passion. I’ll challenge you, compliment you, and maybe even corrupt you a little—but only if you can handle it.
If we vibe, don’t be surprised if I text you “can’t sleep, you up?”… and mean it in every way possible.
What I’m Looking For:
Someone who flirts back with fire, not emojis. You’ve got confidence, curiosity, and just enough edge to keep things interesting. You’re not afraid of intensity, but you also know the power of a well-timed smirk or slow burn.
We can start with laughs and innuendos—but if the chemistry’s right, don’t expect it to stay PG for long.
Pleasure doms to the top. I’m looking for something local and probably won’t respond if you’re not local.
Bonus points if you’re: A little sarcastic A lot bold And absolutely dangerous in a hoodie
Let’s skip the small talk and get to the part where we’re both smiling too much.
Looking for a long term relationship. I am a woman of harmony, strength and joy. I am attracted to everything that fills the soul, body and heart: from active recreation to deep inner balance. I can say for sure that in my arms there is peace, in my words there is inspiration, and next to me you want to become a better man. And I strive to give my love to whoever is next to me.
By day, I’m the boss—confident, career-focused, and always in control. But when the lights dim, I crave the intoxicating thrill of surrender. My body is fit-ish, curved by strength and softened by life; my mind is sharp, always ready for a challenge. I’m a strong-willed woman with an adventurous spirit, unafraid to explore—or be explored. Living with T1D and a pump keeps me resilient, a quiet reminder of my strength, but it’s also taught me to savor the sweetness of letting go. I’m seeking a partner who can match my fire, take the reins, and lead me into the depths of exquisite pleasure and deep connection. Ready to dominate a woman who knows what she wants?
LTR. I DO NOT date men with kids/***/offspring of any age. Not interested long distance!!!
I don’t submit easily — it has to feel earned. I’m soft where I choose to be and strong where it counts. Respect me, unravel me, and you might just find I’m the kind of addiction that never fades.
hi! my name is des, and I’m 25 years old! I’m currently looking for something serious, and am not interested in random hookups! I’m would also love to making some new friends that are also into kink! I'm pretty new to this lifestyle, but I’ve always been super curious and would enjoy learning more.
I can be pretty shy and awkward at first, but once you get to know me, I’m a pretty playful person and have a bit of a bratty side. I’m looking for someone who can spoil me and treat me like the princess I am, and also handle my playful antics, rein me in, and put me in my place when necessary. I’m very loving and sweet, with a bit of a masochistic side.
vanilla me is just a bit obsessed with gaming! I play all kinds of games, so if you ever want to game together feel to message me. Im a big yapper so please match my energy! pretty crafty of a person and also a huge book nerd! I enjoy reading as much as I love gaming! My favorite genres are romance and fantasy.
I’m monogamous and don’t like to share! so if that’s not your thing, please don’t bother messaging me. I’m **not** interested in any type of sexual relationship, so if that’s all you’re looking for I’m not your girl 9_9
If I’ve caught your eye, and or interest and intentions line up feel free to shoot me a message!
IG: forcstfairy 🧚🏽♀️
Hi there! I am a single female looking to meet like minded people. I'm super laid back, no drama and sincerely would love to have friends to hang out with and see where the fun goes! 😉 I have a daddy that will be there for all meets and for extra fun! He is very well endowed and loves to play! I am kinda new to this lifestyle but not really the scene. Let's connect and see where the fun takes us!
Please only message if you read my profile and understand I have a Daddy/Dom and not looking to replace that. Also only message if local I will not do cyber chat or web cam. I am here to meet others truly.
No BBC just not my thing.
In southwestern U.S A. My name is CC . I can be a Sub, or a Mommy Domme. Am a quirky, highly creative Pro Makeup Artist. I'm excellent in the Art of Transformation. Am seeking a Swinger relationship, with men, women and couples. Am Bisexual, an All-Rounder, and a Switch. I can be submissive and do rough sex, or I can be a Mommy Domme and cut you down to size. I perform cunnilingus. Strongly believe in sexual chemistry. Have sex with bisexual men (as well as straight men), and have a strong attraction to them. Have 88 kinks listed here on FET. DD free. Sterile. College educated. Self supporting with a respectable apartment. Natural platinum voluptuous blonde, 5 ft 1", striking green eyes, well endowed, natural (44D, huge aereolas), shaved, sterile, well groomed, non smoker, youthful (look mid fifties) woman. I have a highly nymphomaniac sexual style, polyamorous, and very kinky, and yes, I do like to party. A Sagittarius, Taurus rising, Moon in Leo. Experienced Swinger with sexy, lingerie collection. Can be worldwide as well. Willing to relocate.
I’ve been in the kink community for a long time, but still somehow just beginning. I’ve dabbled in a lot of different things, mainly cuffs. I’m here just to explore & learn :)
Men are so much better when a woman is in control of them.
Don’t approach me without effort. Any message that just says “hey” or “hi” will just get deleted.
Well first, let me start off by saying I’m non-monogamous, and I don’t plan on changing that anytime soon. no kids, no pets, no plants. I have a large family with 11 (soon to be 12) nieces and nephews.
I travel for work and typically gone 2wks to 2mos at a time. when I’m home, I’m usually doing gig work just to keep busy.
I love horror movies, even the crappy ones (Llamageddon), cheesy reality tv shows (the ones on Bravo) and Bob’s Burger’s. I’m fairly outgoing and try to attend events whether they’re vanilla or spicy.
I’m sure I’ll update this as I go, but I’m an open book so feel to ask away😁
About Me
In my daily life, I am the person everyone else leans on. I’m the one who holds it all together and handles the weight, but I’m tired of being the person everyone depends on. While I have a naturally strong, dominant personality, I’m looking for the rare partnership where I can finally put that down. My submission isn't a lack of agency—it’s a high level of trust I only grant to someone who is capable, consistent, and grounded enough to lead. I’m seeking a reliable protector who finds fulfillment in being the steady hand that allows me to finally stop being "the one in charge."
Neurodivergence & Connection
I am AuDHD and a heavy verbal processor. My brain moves at high s***d, and I need a partner who doesn’t just "tolerate" the play-by-play but actually enjoys engaging with how I see the world. I’m looking for someone who can follow the threads of my thoughts and provide a calm, grounding presence when my mind is racing.
Physicality & Safety
I am physically disabled and my body is quite sensitive, requiring an intentional, low-impact approach. I am looking for a soft place to land and a partner who prioritizes trauma-informed care.
When the trust is absolute and I’m finally "off-duty," I lean into age-regressive sensory comforts to help my nervous system regulate. I’m looking for a protector who finds that vulnerability endearing and knows how to provide the safety I need to truly let go.
What I’m Seeking
A Reliable Protector: Someone who naturally takes the lead on decisions to ease my decision fatigue.
Emotional Depth: Someone who understands that being "in charge" is about providing safety, not just giving orders.
Patience: I am out of practice and looking for someone steady who can help me navigate my return to this world at a pace that respects my boundaries.
*** I don't want kids and I don't date people who have them. I get attached easily. ***
Hello, you can call me Mystic unless you already know me. Otherwise feel free to start a conversation, I'll likely tell you my name. Lol
I am 34 years old and have been in the around in the lifestyle off and on over the years. I am currently in an open/ poly relationship.
I am always looking to make new friends and connections.
I am not the best at describing myself and life very well but if you ask me questions I'd be happy to answer.
Here is a copy and paste of some stuff I have up on other platforms about myself.
I like to watch anime and horror films (especially silly stuff), music taste is everywhere but i love anything 80's, I like to occasionally play video games. I would definitely call myself a creative individual, always dabling in a new craft. I love nature and adventure. I am a bit spicy up in the noggin but in fun way not in a destroy your exs life kind of way. 420 friendly, drink occasionally.
$MysticOmen
100% Masochist
100% Non-monogamist
100% Voyeur
100% Exhibitionist
93% Submissive
88% Experimentalist
85% Rope bunny
84% Switch
79% Little
76% Brat
48% Vanilla
44% Master/Mistress
43% Primal (Prey)
40% Ageplayer
40% Sadist
38% Slave
33% Dominant
22% Rigger
16% Pet
8% Primal (Hunter)
6% Degradee
5% Brat tamer
3% Owner
2% Degrader
1% Daddy/Mommy
I'm a sparkly ball of a bratty hot mess Express!
I am a lil naughty brat all the way through...
I love to misbehave, love shenanigans and malarkey!
Can't find a daddy who can handle me.. I scare them away!
Looking for a cute fun girl to bring into the mix, newly bisexual & excited to explore this side with my husband. We want fun but also would be interested in something long term as well if it works out 😜
I'm a ritualistic sub. I have a severe praise kink though I do love a hint of ***. I like big cock, please don't message me if you are below 7 in. I enjoy being tied up, and love exhibition. I like male male female threesomes. and of course I like choking, suffocating, being teased, and mild cnc. I'm a psyconaught. and I'm on a search for the world champion of pussy eating.
love love love hot cowboys.
I probs won't respond if you are further than 90 miles unless you plan on spoiling me. I would do almost anything for a ninja 500, in case anyone wants to buy my heart.
Soft-hearted troublemaker with a mischievous smile and a curious mind. I’m playful, affectionate, bratty when the mood strikes, and I love the dance between sweetness and control 😇😈
I’m drawn to chemistry that feels magnetic—teasing energy, deep conversation, and the kind of connection that makes the air feel charged ⚡️ ✨
Currently hoping to meet a confident pleasure daddy dom who enjoys guiding, spoiling, and keeping a (somewhat) good girl on her toes. 😉💋
Looking for a long term relationship. I am a woman of harmony, strength and joy. I am attracted to everything that fills the soul, body and heart: from active recreation to deep inner balance. I can say for sure that in my arms there is peace, in my words there is inspiration, and next to me you want to become a better man. And I strive to give my love to whoever is next to me.
I can tell you a lot about myself, but everything you need to know about me you can see in the depths of my eyes. I don't want long conversations, I want a real relationship.
I’ve been such a good girl all day, but now I’m craving a little mischief. I want someone brave enough to handle my kind of fun. Who’s ready to make my night worth remembering? I have something for u!!! msg me
$
N
A
P
chat ***
I’m the type who’ll make you laugh mid-flirt and then look at you like I just undressed you with my eyes. Equal parts trouble and temptation, with a heart that actually gives a damn—because attraction is fun, but connection? That’s the real turn-on.
I don’t do boring. I want sparks, smirks, and someone who knows how to turn playful banter into something a lot less innocent. I’m into deep convos, dirty laughs, spontaneous plans, and unapologetic passion. I’ll challenge you, compliment you, and maybe even corrupt you a little—but only if you can handle it.
If we vibe, don’t be surprised if I text you “can’t sleep, you up?”… and mean it in every way possible.
What I’m Looking For:
Someone who flirts back with fire, not emojis. You’ve got confidence, curiosity, and just enough edge to keep things interesting. You’re not afraid of intensity, but you also know the power of a well-timed smirk or slow burn.
We can start with laughs and innuendos—but if the chemistry’s right, don’t expect it to stay PG for long.
Pleasure doms to the top. I’m looking for something local and probably won’t respond if you’re not local.
Bonus points if you’re: A little sarcastic A lot bold And absolutely dangerous in a hoodie
Let’s skip the small talk and get to the part where we’re both smiling too much.
Strong woman who submits to whom she chooses.
I've got a ton of filthy kinks and fetishes, but my number one fetish is intelligent men who are mindful, communicative, calm, confident, and empathetic. If we can't talk about our lives and the world with a decent conversation - nothing else is going to happen.
Best wishes to everyone in their search.
YES TO:
* DD/lg dynamic (must have)
* Spankings and other really hard impact play without "you've been a bad girl" messaging - I love it! 😍
* Firm, structured, disciplined-but-positive Dominants
* Men 45 years old+
* Health-conscious men 😍
* Those very local to the Phoenix Metro Area
NO TO:
* Smokers - it tastes yucky to kiss 🤷♀️
* Grouchy people 😂
* Switches, Subs, Vanilla, or "I'm so horny" guys / those "kinda curious about this stuff"
* Doms who live to "punish" w/ "bad girl"
* People who ghost other people
* Doms who aren't comfortable being called Daddy
* Men under 45
* MAGA people - I'm a centrist
* Heavy alcohol or 420 users
* Men who aren't health-conscious
* More than 40 miles from N Phoenix
* ***, kids, *** play, ***s
09/02 Update: I am now in a relationship, but one where I am still free to explore my wants and desires with his blessing. If there are any bisexual or bi-curious men who would like to play with the two of us together, that is always welcome 😁 If there is anyone who is interested in solo time with me, that is also an available option but with some stipulations which can be discussed later.
I'm open to a lot of different things. To break it down I would either like someone with an equally large sado/masochist side for some really ***ful experices that leave us both clinging to life, or someone who is into the MDLB dynamic ?
I don’t submit easily — it has to feel earned. I’m soft where I choose to be and strong where it counts. Respect me, unravel me, and you might just find I’m the kind of addiction that never fades.
By day, I’m the boss—confident, career-focused, and always in control. But when the lights dim, I crave the intoxicating thrill of surrender. My body is fit-ish, curved by strength and softened by life; my mind is sharp, always ready for a challenge. I’m a strong-willed woman with an adventurous spirit, unafraid to explore—or be explored. Living with T1D and a pump keeps me resilient, a quiet reminder of my strength, but it’s also taught me to savor the sweetness of letting go. I’m seeking a partner who can match my fire, take the reins, and lead me into the depths of exquisite pleasure and deep connection. Ready to dominate a woman who knows what she wants?
LTR. I DO NOT date men with kids/***/offspring of any age. Not interested long distance!!!
hi! my name is des, and I’m 25 years old! I’m currently looking for something serious, and am not interested in random hookups! I’m would also love to making some new friends that are also into kink! I'm pretty new to this lifestyle, but I’ve always been super curious and would enjoy learning more.
I can be pretty shy and awkward at first, but once you get to know me, I’m a pretty playful person and have a bit of a bratty side. I’m looking for someone who can spoil me and treat me like the princess I am, and also handle my playful antics, rein me in, and put me in my place when necessary. I’m very loving and sweet, with a bit of a masochistic side.
vanilla me is just a bit obsessed with gaming! I play all kinds of games, so if you ever want to game together feel to message me. Im a big yapper so please match my energy! pretty crafty of a person and also a huge book nerd! I enjoy reading as much as I love gaming! My favorite genres are romance and fantasy.
I’m monogamous and don’t like to share! so if that’s not your thing, please don’t bother messaging me. I’m **not** interested in any type of sexual relationship, so if that’s all you’re looking for I’m not your girl 9_9
If I’ve caught your eye, and or interest and intentions line up feel free to shoot me a message!
IG: forcstfairy 🧚🏽♀️
The boobs are not real. They came out of nowhere and only exist for that photo. And I myself am looking for them.
Now that I have crushed dreams, I would like to be able to talk to somebody and maybe sleep along them too. What type of sleeping? That depends on the person.
Independent, open-minded, and comfortable with my desires. I appreciate honesty, clear communication, and people who understand that trust and respect are what make exploration exciting. I’m interested in meeting someone who is confident, emotionally intelligent, and enjoys a playful but intentional dynamic.
Chemistry matters. Conversation matters. Mutual respect matters.
You’re not looking for a girl… you’re looking for a woman.
I’m confident, curvy, experienced, and I know exactly how to hold a conversation that keeps you thinking about me long after we hang up.
Men come to me because they want something real — playful flirting, deep late-night conversations, a little adventure, and a woman who isn’t afraid to take the lead.
I enjoy confident men who know how to treat a woman with respect. If you’re charming, curious, and ready to indulge your mind as well as your imagination, we’ll get along just fine.
What you’ll get with me:
• Sensual flirting
• Intelligent conversation
• Playful teasing
• A little mystery
• A woman who knows her power
What I expect:
Respect, good energy, and men who value my time.
Call me when you’re ready to experience something a little more intoxicating than the usual.
Soft-hearted troublemaker with a mischievous smile and a curious mind. I’m playful, affectionate, bratty when the mood strikes, and I love the dance between sweetness and control 😇😈
I’m drawn to chemistry that feels magnetic—teasing energy, deep conversation, and the kind of connection that makes the air feel charged ⚡️ ✨
Currently hoping to meet a confident pleasure daddy dom who enjoys guiding, spoiling, and keeping a (somewhat) good girl on her toes. 😉💋
I’ve been in the kink community for a long time, but still somehow just beginning. I’ve dabbled in a lot of different things, mainly cuffs. I’m here just to explore & learn :)
Well first, let me start off by saying I’m non-monogamous, and I don’t plan on changing that anytime soon. no kids, no pets, no plants. I have a large family with 11 (soon to be 12) nieces and nephews.
I travel for work and typically gone 2wks to 2mos at a time. when I’m home, I’m usually doing gig work just to keep busy.
I love horror movies, even the crappy ones (Llamageddon), cheesy reality tv shows (the ones on Bravo) and Bob’s Burger’s. I’m fairly outgoing and try to attend events whether they’re vanilla or spicy.
I’m sure I’ll update this as I go, but I’m an open book so feel to ask away😁
Men are so much better when a woman is in control of them.
Don’t approach me without effort. Any message that just says “hey” or “hi” will just get deleted.
I'm a ritualistic sub. I have a severe praise kink though I do love a hint of ***. I like big cock, please don't message me if you are below 7 in. I enjoy being tied up, and love exhibition. I like male male female threesomes. and of course I like choking, suffocating, being teased, and mild cnc. I'm a psyconaught. and I'm on a search for the world champion of pussy eating.
love love love hot cowboys.
I probs won't respond if you are further than 90 miles unless you plan on spoiling me. I would do almost anything for a ninja 500, in case anyone wants to buy my heart.
I'm not into long distance so please be in Phoenix Arizona. I'm not looking to date anybody younger than my ***, please be at least 45 and I don't know upt to maybe 60. not interested in being a baby mama I have grown ***. sexting is not my thing, hookups are not my thing ,yes I'm on this site I know crazy me trying to find something real. also I am not 420 friendly highly allergic.
Free range adult, kink education in one hand, rope in the other.
I’m here to enjoy connecting with like-minded people! To learn more about myself and expand my passion for self-discovery and support of the same for others.
Open to respectful, clean, intelligent like minded individuals for fun in and out of the bedroom. 🤩
I value transparency, curiosity and follow through.
Clean STI tests as of 12/30/2025
She’s into:
Shibari, power exchange, goddess worship, pleasure submission with a confident, kind, a girthy strong man is ideal. She’s exploring pleasure drive submission, spreader bars, slow teasing and her toes being worshipped.
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